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We always knew that Paul is well loved but the outpouring of love is overwhelming. Here are the messages that we have been emailed. Please send us more. Each one will be read to Paul and each one will pull him a little closer to us.

Dear Allison, I spoke with your mom earlier this evening and was so devasted to hear about your wonderful brother. We know in our hearts that he is a strong young man and is a fighting to be with his loving family again very soon. Please know that our thought and prayers are with Paul and your family.

If you need anything please let us know. I told your mom when I get back that I would be avaible to stay with her at the hospital.

Please know how much you all mean to us and we are here for all of you.

Love, Suzanne and Gerry
Anaheim Hills, CA

Hey paul its simons best friends max, i heard the news and i hope u get better soon. Ill be keepin up with the news and keep sendin prayers but until then all i can say is YOU ARE ONE STRONG VALET PARKER, i send my best wishes to u and the rest of the cousins family, and simon u're handling it well keep it up.
SUBJECT: We're with ya big guy!

Hey Paully,

It's the boys at the mansion here, sending you our most beloved prayers and wishes. We are all thinking of you and pulling for ya! You're the franchise player, and you got a huge and faithful team behind. A big ox and a ladies man at the same, what an allstar combination. You can do it big-shooter. Keep it positive & we will see ya real soon.

With all our love, wishes, and prayers.

Scotty, Eddies, T-bone, and Ry
North Vancouver, BC

Hey Paulie - Just wanted to let you know I've got a cold one waiting for you when you get back. Get well soon buddy.

SEAN AITKEN
North Vancouver, BC

Paul: Keep up the good work recovering. Thier is much to do here yet, besides your dad needs to see who is really king of the house.

Ronald Tremblay

Paul,

Hey, my man! Hayes here. You hang tough, Paul. Hear me? This world still has lots in store for you. Skydiving was just a way of getting you warmed up for the really exciting stuff. I love you, Paul.

Hayes

P.S. So, when you're better, you're going to teach me how to skydive, right?

SUBJECT: You are in our prayers

Dear Ali,

You don't know me...I'm a friend of Ashley's Mom and Suzanne just told me the sad new about your brother, Paul. I am so sad, but wanted you to know we are praying for him and your family.

Suzanne gave us your website address, so we'll keep checking and following his progress. If there's anything we can do, please let us know.

My daughter, Kriste, has been a good friend of Ashley's since they were 5. In August before Addie left for Spain - Kriste, Addie, Suzanne & I got together for a farewell lunch....Well, Addie brought Paul - yep, Paul's 3x5 picture, in a frame no less, sat between the girls. Kriste & I feel like we sort of know him from all the wonderful things Addie has told us about your brother (and you too by the way).

Hopefully your family will find some comfort during this emotional time knowing you have so many friends praying for good things. xoxo..Kelly

Kelly Dytyniak
Aliso Viejo, CA

SUBJECT: Thinking of you

Paul, even though I do not know you, I imagine you are a man who lives big, gives to others willingly and have a big reason to live. If you are anything like your wonderful parents or your sister Allison, I am sure that you have what it takes to pull through this ordeal.

I will keep you in my thoughts and pray for you.

David Barrett
Vancouver, BC

Allison...

That is a beautiful page, the only thing that I want to say to Paul is that he is one of the strongest, most admirable men I know... and if anyone can pull through this it is him. I also have a 12 year old bottle of scotch and a cigar sitting here with his name on it and he best hurry his ass up here and enjoy them with me.

And as far as the love and support, you know that will always be there.

24-7 I'm here, just a call away.

Rahim
North Vancouver, BC

keep on the battle and all the best for getting back to normal

varouj---team anchor

SUBJECT: GET WELL SOON!!! -- My families' prayers are with you and all yo ur family. All the best

Dear Paul.

Myself and Zahra look forward to your complete and speedy recovery.

Amyn

Hello Allie,

I’m a long time friend of Addie’s, and I am so devastated to hear about Paul’s accident. I refresh your website every few minuets to see if there is a new update. I’m sure that he will be able to pull through. I just wish that I would have been able to meet him while he was at Addie’s because she has told me such wonderful things about him. We’ll all have to get together once Paul recovers. My prayers are with you and your family.

God Bless,

Kriste Dytyniak
California

SUBJECT: PRAYERS

Paul.... all of our prayers are with you this morning!! We see by Allison's site that you are a remarkable kid and everyone knows that you are a survivor. So you keep that thought!! Miracles happen everyday!

Carol Brandt
Bowen Island, BC

Dear Jan & Richard...

I have been keeping in close touch with Ali and so devasted by the last email I received. She tried to get ahold of Addie but unable to get her, I am going to try and get through so she can send Paul an e-mail in her own words. We feel like we had become so close to your wonderful son.

He was know as" Pool Boy" around her after he told us a cute story about the older women who always has something special for the young, handsome landscaper to do.

We love you all, Suzanne and Gerry

Hi to Paul's family!

My name is Nicole Rieder and I graduated from Sutherland with Paul. My heart went out to you all when I heard the horrible news. After reading the updates it appears that Paul is headed in the right direction but I know there will be a lot of obstacles for him to overcome. If you could read the following message to Paul, I would greatly appreciate it:

Hey Paul, everyone in North Van is pulling for you right now and we all want to see your big beautiful smile again soon. Be strong buddy, we all know you have it in you to fight. We all love and miss you and are anxiously waiting to hear about a FULL recovery. Get better soon buddy, there's lots more fun to be had!

SUBJECT: get well

Paul you are in my thoughts and my prayers, if anyone can pull through it's you buddy. Goodluck and godbless

Dennis Begley
North Vancouver, BC

Dear Paul,

Our friend Ashley Klein sent us this e-mail about your accident. She is in Spain right now, so we do not know whether you are a friend from Spain, or a friend from the US. It doesn't matter. Ashley has put out a call for prayer and we want you to know that we are responding from Southern California. Only this last year our own daughter, also a friend of Ashley's, went into heart failure and it took a year away from school for even partial recovery. It was prayer and prayer alone that got us through each day. Many times we were even too tired to pray and others prayed for us. Know that from southern California we are praying at this very moment for your strength and recovery. We trust that you know the Lord, and that is a huge comfort to your family at this time. We have seen the Lord be in control of our own family's health crisis, and trust that He is with you as well.

God bless.

Sharon and Ken Rockwell
Southern California

SUBJECT: You can Do it!

Paul, I have the pleasure to have your wonderful family provide a thanksgiving meal to my family in the past and I am so grateful that there are people like you and your family in our life. We are all blessed with the warm, compassionate hearts, hugs and love from you and your family.

With the same context of love, hugs and good wishes, I strongly believe you will make it out and soon be able to see us having a turkey again. From the bottom of my heart, I close my eyes and have a circle of men, arms in arms sending you: Ho
! Ho!
Ho!

From Arif Meghji, Team Ironhorse and the men (& women) in Vancouver

SUBJECT: Get Better Soon

Dear Allison,

Dennis just told me about Paul's accident. I am so sorry to hear about it and am praying for him and your family. Take Care and God Bless!

Kate Begley

Subject: About Paul... Dear Jan & Richard,

My name is Jason MacLeod, I live in Canmore, AB. Some 2 1/2 years ago I was in a serious vehicular accident. If you were around the Sterling or New Frontiers at that time, you likely would have heard about me.

I am sure you are receiving many words of comfort at this time. What I have to offer is my personal experience of being in Paul's situation.

Family and friends make all the difference. My mother practically lived at the hospital, which I am sure the two of you are as well. And she brought me emails that were sent from friends and read them to me.

Take pictures(even though you may not want to). I found that the transformation from being broken to coming back was amazing. Our minds forget all to soon.

After about 5-7 days, he may start having a bad time with hallucinations from the morphine. ICU induced psychosis. Not fun. That was the worst part of my 5 weeks in the hospital. If he is intubated, give him a writing pad to use to communicate. And pay attention to his complains of discomfort. If things are getting worse, he will likely let you know.

Those are a few things to keep in mind.

I don't know how badly injured he is, but he can survive anything, if he wants. There are five separate times I never should have made it. I defied all the odds. So can he. Keep the faith.

JM

-- Not all woundings are self inflicted, but all healings are.

Paul,

You can do it man. This is Lee, Gaby's husband in Chicago. Fight man Fight! I'll be thinking of you all the time!

Lee
Chicago, IL

Dear Jan, Richard, Allie, Adrienne, Simon and Paully,

Having just received the email this minute I am trembling with sadness about this news. What a fantastic young man he is. I know how proud you all are of him, I can't even tell you how impressed Serena, Lee and I were on our visit to Vancouver this summer. He's the kind of young man you hope your daughter brings home.

Paully, we are thinking of you and praying for a speedy recovery. We know you can do this because "give up" is not a part of your vocabulary. We love you Paul and are rooting for you every step of the way.

Love Gaby, Lee and Serena

Great photo from one of his friends...
Philip & I have been praying for your brother since we heard about his accident this morning. Your family is an inspiration to us all and our hearts are with all of you during this time.

You and your mother are amazing women. With all of your power and grace behind him, Paul is sure to fight this battle with amazing strength and determination. Our family will continue to pray for your family and for a speedy & safe recovery.

Thank you for keeping us updated. If there is anything you need, Philip & I are not far away from either of you.

All our love for you and your family,

Lisa Sharpe & Philip Goon
Vancouver, BC & Los Angeles, CA

Hey Paully, it's Sewman emailing from Ottawa. I was a little shocked when I got the email - but you know something? You're one of the strongest guys I know, both mentally and physically and I know you're going to pull through. Hang in there and keep fighting. After you're all better, this is just going to be one more story to tell the ladies.

My prayers are with you tough guy. We'll see you back in North Van.

Sewman
Ottawa, Ontario

SUBJECT: Holding on...

Paul, hold tight to the truth that we all love you and know we are with you through this trial. Hold on to our strength and Gods love as we pray for his mercy on us. Take our hand, hold tight and fight like hell. Gerry

Dear Paul:

All of your Mom & Dad's colleagues and friends here at Acres in Vancouver were so sorry to hear about your serious accident last Saturday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you for a full recovery very soon.

Very best regards,

THE STAFF, ACRES VANCOUVER

Dear Richard and Jan:

We were very sorry to hear of Paul's accident. We just wanted you to know that our thoughts are with you and we're wishing you all the strength, love and hope it will take to get through this. Please let us know if there is anything we can do and anything you might need.

Pat and Robin

Hello,

My name is Nancy Rawitz, Ashley Klein's Aunt...I heard the terrible news this morning regarding Ashely's sweet friend and I am so very sorry. I have been in Temple all day today, as it is Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement. The Rabbi asked for names of people who needed our prayers and I spoke up and said:

Paul Cousins loud and clear for God to hear...

I will continue to pray for your son and brother and Ashley's dear friend...you have a team of supporters here in Fullerton California and we will stay with you during this ordeal!

Love Always,

Aunt Nancy
Fullerton, CA

More great photo from Cristina Bittante...
Dear Paul,

We've never met, but from all that I've read about you I sure look forward to it one day. I'm a friend and business associate of Alison's, and I wanted to let you know that prayers are flowing from the States too. It sounds like you and your family have touched many lives, and your friends want more. Hang in there, fight, and believe . . .

Chuck Horton
Seattle, WA

Thinking and praying for you every day down here in North Carolina Paul! Take it one day at a time man and just keep keepin' on. When the going gets rough, feel all of the love around you, everyone's praying and sending their energy . Sending my love to you AC and the whole Cousins family.

Much Love.

Lucy Shaw,
Winston-Salem, NC

Hey paully, hang in there buddy. We're all rooting for u here in vancity and we're sure you're going make it through this difficult time. So many people know how great a guy you are and it's this strength that will hopefully allow for a quick recovery. I'm sure u cant wait to get back to vancouver and see all the boys again because i know all the boys want to see you! Just remember- wounds heal and chicks dig scars! We all love you and pray for you,

love, your friend, Neil.

hi paul and family. i didn't know paul but was very sorry to hear about his accident. i don't really know what happened or how it happened, but it doesnt matter. all that matters is that he is alive and his conditions are improving. my total thoughs and prayers and vibes are with him right now. i am praying for a quick and painless recovery for him. hang in there and keep smiling:) love your sky sister...

alana

Hey Paul..

I haven't known you long.. one jump together.. a few brief discussions in the planes.. but I know you are a tough brave kid.. Hang in there and fight through this.. We'll see you back in the air in no-time..

Roy Muller
(Chopchop)

Dear Paul and family,

My name is Kristin Gray and I am one of Paul's friends. I am truly sorry to hear about Paul's accident and my hopes and prayers go out to him. I talked to him a couple of days before the accident and he had sounded so excited about learning to skydive. I am confident that after all this is over he will go back to doing what he loves. Paul...keep fighting, I know you can do it. I finally got the pictures of us at my grad developed and I can't wait to show them to you. Stay strong!

Jan and Richard,

We are thinking and praying for Paul. He is tough, and surrounded by your positive energies he will fight through this! We love you all.

Cathy, Bart, Andrew and Lauren.

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Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have 2 choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or... you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood." Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or... I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or... I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life. "Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live your life." I reflected on what Michael said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60' from a communications tower. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Michael about 6 months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon-to-be born daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had 2 choices: I could choose to live or... I could choose to die. I chose to live." "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man'. I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I replied.' The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity'." Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead!" Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything. After all, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

Tell Paul that Vinny the Anvil said some prayers for him yesterday in Church, several in the plane, last night before I went to sleep, and some more this morning and afternoon.

Vinny 'The Anvil' Watson

Hey Pauly:

It's Brandie hear. I'd just like to say that I love u soo much and i am Greatly proud of u for doing soo well. Ever since I have ever met u i have looked up to u as "The Big Brother I've never had." Thanx for all the support in my life. Remember making those gross pancakes with Dro and your dad wasnt to happy...oops and all the times You took us out driving in that car of yours***. So Paul I'm sending you all of my love and all my Prayers and I no u well Enough to know that ur a fighter, and soon enough you'll be reading these letters..MUch Love and More Love~~*Brandie Boo*~~xoxoxoxox

P.S: To my lovly 2nd fam-damly I love you guys sooooooo much and i respect u soo much for all uve eve done for me thax for all the love and smiles... u guys are dealing with this soo well and i can see u guys have soo much faith in Paul and in Jesus!!!!! GOD BLESS all of u... u to Benny Baby!!!xoxoxoxoox

Hey Paulieee,

Im so upset to hear about your accident but am praying hard for a fast recovery. You are an awesome, strong guy with a great smile and even better moves out on the dance floor!

My prayers are with you and your family

Love Char

Pauly...

Keep strong...keep fighting. You and your family are being kept in deep prayer. God's got u in his hands, Paul. That's the truth.

xoxo Grace Lee

Paul,

You've always been the one whom we looked too for the impossible, whether it be to score that last clutch goal or amaze us with your desire to preform above the quo. Your the strongest friend we have and we want you to know that our prays are with you and your familly. Be strong and know that everyone here in Vancouver loves you and is doing everything we can to help you beat this.

Love your friends Chris Kothlow, Falon Towill

hello to the whole family!

i was shocked when adrienne told me what happened on the phone last night. i've been thinking about it all day. when i was a young child i remember looking up to him as a big brother, he was so "cool." paul really is a great guy with a very strong heart. i am confident that he has the fight in him to ensure quick full recovery. i send out all my prayers to him and hope he will pull through quickly. KEEP FIGHTING PAUL!

love and thoughts,

montana allen, north van, b.c.

Skydiving is a small family, and even though he is a new member, our "little brother" is an important part of our family. May you remain strong and positive throughout these trying times, and know that all of our collective thoughts, well wishes and prayers are with our brother Paul and his family.

With good thoughts,

Andy De Mars
San Francisco, Ca

paul u're strong you can still do this, evry one that knows you plus me is praying with all of our hearts, we will keep our fingers crossed for you up until the day you come home, simon and i and everyone else is trying to think possitive. please let paul live

Max

Hey paul im still waiting for that phone call. well i guess ill have to wait a little longer. all i can do now is pray for your well being, God bless you bro i miss you alot, i would also like to pray for your family.

P.S. Be strong bro ill see you soon.

Your in our prayers,

From Chris Billinger + Stephanie Sieben
North Van, BC

Speachless, I don't even know when to start. God Paul you've become so much to so many people. I have too many memories with you that I can't begin to count. So many times you made me laugh. From the beginning you always had to be unique and different. At the start this might have rubbed some the wrong way, but it became obvious you were born to stand out. I can't and don't want to image my past and future without you in it. Even in your current situation when I think of you all I can do is smile. Just thinking of that goofy laugh and toothy grin. You seem to lead a charmed life; one adventure leading to another. I always admired you for trying new things with little or no heistation. You were trusting and trusted; loyal beyond what any friend can ask. All my prays and thoughts are with you

love scott

Paul,

I'm sitting here typing this with one finger of my left hand because my right hand is in a cast due to a broken wrist. I know this is extremely trivial compared to the battle that you are fighting.

I'm not much of a one to pray and I want you to know that I will be praying for you everyday until you are out of danger.

I've known your Mom and Dad for almost 25 years and you certainly come from the best of stock. I know that you will have inherited the strength and the determination that your Mother and Father have, and this will help you get thru this tough time.

p.s.
Jan & Richard
If there is anything I can do for you please let me know.

With all my love and support.

Bob Munro

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, each and everyone of you--PAUL- you can do this just hold on to each moment.You are such a fighter.God bless.

Glenys Lawson

Dear Jan...I just want you and your beautiful family to know I am praying for Paul and all of you during this time...I cannot imagine what you are going through....Nicole Taylor friend of Gabys

North Vancouver

hey paul its max again , i just wanted to give you my best wishes, and to tell the cousins family to keep staying strong and to never give up.

max simons best friend

Hi Paul. It's Birva, Ashley's friend from UCLA; we met over the summer. In my heart I know you are a fighter; know that I am praying for you to win your battle so you can return to your family and friends.

To the Cousins family:
I've never met you all, but Ashley has told me so many wonderful things about all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with Paul and you all.

Love,
Birva Patel
University of California, Los Angeles

Dear Paul,

It has been a pleasure being around you as you have grown from a talented little kid into a fine young man. As your one time coach in soccer and basketball and friend of your family we have been through a lot together and had many great experiences and some fun times.

I remember the day when the Falcons players entered a cross country race against some older boys. You fought your way to the front and won the race. I was nearly as proud of you as your parents were.

I remember the Grade 7 basketall tournament in Abbotsford when you were grade 6. Free throws to win the game were awarded to Eastview and all your team mates yelled for you to shoot them. You did . They went in. We won the game.

I remember those cycle rides we used to take along the Richmond dyke and your determination to get back to the car first. You always did.

I remember the Falcons training camp at Whistler playing cricket at Rainbow Park. You had never played before but you were so keen to learn the game. Pretty soon you knew how to bat and bowl and never wanted the game to end.

I remember you coming back to Sutherland in Grade 12 and making the Senior basketball team. You provided some much needed muscle under the boards.

I remember only last winter watching your men's soccer team and there you were hustling for every ball . Yes you also scored a goal or two just as you always did. After the game you came over to chat to me no longer the little boy I used to coach but a gentleman, courteous yet confident in yourself..

Paul, I've never known a more determined person than you. You've been through some tough scrapes but nothing like this. This is going to take ALL your willpower but you can do it. You have a world full of friends who are willing you to succeed and a devoted family who will always be there for you as you recover from this ordeal.

We love you Paul

Harvey
North Vancouver

Oh, Allison ... my thoughts & prayers are so with you & your family! They shall continue to be. Although I've not met your dear brother Paul, I've heard you talk of him often enough & through the photos you've shown me to get a sense of his character, which I believe to be very fine indeed. I've read through what others have written. He must know how much he means to so many people, both family & friends! I pray that Paul has it in him, through God, to pull through this, yet to live life in a manner that would bring joy to him & continue to bring joy to those that know him.

My love to you all,

Karen Curry

To Paul and his family,

I'm shocked to hear the news and am hoping for Paul's quick recovery. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

-Tanu

Dear Paul, Auntie Jan, Uncle Richard, Allison, Adrienne, Simon

We want you to know that we are hoping and praying steadily for your recovery, Paul. You are so strong and courageous, and you are loved so much by everyone in your life.

We love all of you very much and are thinking of you.

Love Pamela, Geoff and Ashley

This is Heather,Lisa and Ingrid here in Victoria. We just heard the unfortunate news and just wanted to let Paul and His family know that we are thinking of them at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

With love,

Heather Scott, Lisa Carlson and Ingrid Jorgensen
Victoria, B.C.

Hey Paul,

You've already showed us what amount of will power you are able to provide in your amazing progression learning how to skydive. Now is the time to use it again and to go through that hard time the same way you learned how to fly. Get on well quickly man, we still have to do that sit-fly jump together.

Know that all your skydiving brothers are sending their thoughts and well wishes.

Gwenole Maugard
Sunnyvale, Ca


Hello Allie,

I continue to pray for your brother and his quick and healthy recovery. Also, i just wanted to send you this picture because i think its so cute and i know how much Addie is thinking of Paul while she is in Spain.

Love,

Kriste

Hey man ive heard alot of good things about yah from my good buddy simon. and from the looks of it simon wouldnt be the same if u werent in his life so we are all hopin u pull through. cheers man
I know this is a very difficult time for all of you, there isn't much that anyone can say but know that my thoughts and prayers are with Paul, you and your family Alison. God works in mysterious ways, I know that there is an angel looking over all of you.

Take Care,

Michelle Poitras xoxox

Hi Paul and family,

I heard the terrible news today. You are all in my thoughts and I am pulling for ya. Paul - I have seen you grow up into a strong man, and that strength will help you recover. It is always sad to see someone get hurt doing something they love - but I know you will fight hard and get your second chance.

Craig Lawson
Vancouver, BC

You said, "I'll see you soon" when we spoke on friday. Now I know what your word means to me, but you sure as hell better know what it means to me right now. I love you with all that I got, and you know that I'm fighting this with you. I was so looking forward to your coming home this last weekend, all I can see is your face wherever I go. I'm wating for you to walk in my front door, grab a beer, and plop yourself down on the couch as you have so many times before. I'd even be willing to let you win a game of Fifa 2002 if you came over right now. I've been talking to Wade about how we really need you back on the soccer team as well, we're having trouble scoring goals and I know that you could help us out in that department.

Your the best Paul and you mean so so much to us here.

PS Paul, Bubba wanted me to tell you that he misses you too

Jan, Richard: I love you guys and miss you too

Dear "Auntie Jan", "Uncle Richard", Allison, Adrienne & Simon,

My name is Debbie Lee and I am a close friend of Tracey Martin's. This past summer I met Paul at the cabin as well as Adrienne and Simon and Richard again. I am deeply saddened to hear of Paul's accident. I don't know what to say. I have been praying for you since I heard about it. I've petitioned God for a miracle. Although I don't know Paul personally, please tell him that he is in my thoughts and being prayed for really hard. I am also praying for you, Jan and Richard, at this very tough time. I am trying not to be anxious or worry, knowing that when I pray to God, His peace that transcends all understanding guards my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. That is my prayer for all of you right now.

Allison, Adrienne, Simon, I am thinking of you often. I love you guys.

Debbie
Ottawa, ON (formerly of Vancouver)

Paul and the rest of the Cousin's clan, just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. Keep pulling through Paul, you are strong enough to fight this. Everyone in Van is sending out their love and energy to you. God doesn't give us more then we can handle, and you can handle this. Be strong. With all my love.

Nicole Versteeg

Hey Paul,

My prayers go out to you buddy. You're the kind of guy that can put a smile on anyone's face, and the many people who are sending best wishes reflects this. Known you for 15 years and I know in my heart I'm gonna know you for at least 15 more.

Nick Duran
N. Van
BC

Hey Paul, its me Shizuka. Im gonna be waiting for ya back in North Van cuz we're supposed to go and party together right? Hey, you used to be as short as me remember? This kinda stuff is definitely not gonna get in your way if you have the power to grow like a beanstalk! I miss your smiles buddy, so get better.

I will be praying for you with all my heart,

Lots of love to his family,

Shizuka Kai

North Vancouver, BC

Paul, Jan, Richard & Allison: You do not know us but we are close friends of Gerry, Suzanne and Ashley Klein. We were deeply saddened when we heard the devastating news of Paul's accident. We are keeping Paul in our prayers and thoughts. Ashley is very special person and we know that her dear friends are just as special. We know that all the prayers will provide strength for all of you. Keep fighting Paul.

Bill & Mary Dallman
Chandler, Arizona

Hey Paul,

We all just said a prayer for you and your family sweetheart, we all love you so much! I think it has given everyone a new outlook on life...this kind of thing should never have happened to someone as amazing as you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we can't wait to see you. Remembering your innocent smile.............

Love,

chantelle, jamie, sean and nick
XOXOX

Paul,

I didn't get to know you as much as I would have like to in highschool, but we talked from time to time right? I remember you from back in Eastview to grade 9 PE wrestling, to your pimped out car with the fuzzy white balls in grade 12. If any of those times we talked were an indication of your strength of character, I know you'll pull through this one.

All my best, Paul! I'll talk to you soon buddy!

Heiday Tomotake
(Hee-DAY)

Hey Paul. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you, I heard about your accident on dz.com and I just want to send my prayers. Keep fighting hun, God will get you through this. Your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I'd love to meet you some day, maybe we'll fly together.

Blue Skies my friend,

Amanda

I am lost for words. I am hurting so much inside. This is not real. I pray for Paul and his family.

Mike

Hey Paul,

You gotta hang in there. We had such good times and I wont believe that we will not have any more. I want you to know that you truly were one of my favorite people and the time we shared together was wonderful. No matter what went down ...you always cheered me up with your contagious smile. I love you for that. So keep recovering...cuz i can't imagine anyone else that could recover from this, but you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

LOVE

Vida Wakhshouri, Mikel Sieben, and Stacey McCullough

hey paul

I can't really put whats going through my head right now into words.. I just hope everything turns out for the best.. I heard what happend today and I'm praying for you.. So many people from van are all talking saying what a great guy you are and we have some good memories.. so form the bottom of my heart i hope you make a fast recouvery...

Gurki Rai
N.van

I've never met Paul, though being from the North Shore, he looks familiar. I'm sitting right now with a friend of his and she has been telling me about what has happened. I wanted to send to you my thoughts and prayers. It is in these moments that we reflect and that everything becomes relative. I can't imagine what this has been for you, but please know that out there in the world, someone who has never met you is thinking about you and wishing you the very best. To you, I send all of my best and healing energy, and hope that you receive all that you need in this moment and each to come. Life works in wonderous ways and it's hard to figure out the whys to anything. Paul, from the pictures I've seen and the stories I've been told, is a beautiful soul.....his journey, one that noone but he knows to continue wherever he may be.

Take care,

Diana Lux

Paul,

You are an amazing person. I have never seen someone flying like you in so little number of jumps. I know you'll make it through. Keep fighting, you are not alone, we're fighting with you.

Flip

Love and prayers to you and your family.

Dear Cousins Family

I met Paul really for the first time this past summer. I was most impressed with his talents, drive and character. You are all in my prayers...

Love Janice

Dear Paul and family,

It is now 10:20PM on October 6, 2003. I JUST found out about this from the Lawson’s. I wish I had found out earlier so I could offer my support. I have not much to say, as a lot has been said by many. You have my prayers and much more. I hope you guys the best of luck. Keep in mind that miracles do happen, and do NOT give up hope for Paul. From what I remember Paul, he was and still is a very strong minded man. I wish I could offer more then just words and prayers, and if there is anything else that you guys need, please do not refrain from asking. I am here to help, and give as much as I can, for the better being of Paul and the family. Lets hope this is something that we’ll see on “Believe it or Not” and see Paul being interviewed telling his side of the story of what happened. Best wishes for Paul, and may GOD be with him.

Miracles are bound to happen! Let’s hope Paul is bound to get one.

Much love and respect;

Houman Lessani
North Vancouver, BC
Grad 2K

Hey Paul,

You've been my neighbour for as long as I can remember, and I've seen you grow from a baby into a young man.

I could always count on you keeping your truck just a bit cleaner than mine, seeing as everytime I'd drive by your house, you'd be outside washing it. I hope you make it through these tough times that you're facing, and come home so we can wash our cars together. Please stay strong, and I'll see you soon.

Anthony Mar

Paul, I'm so sorry that you have to be feeling this pain. I know deep inside that you truely are a strong guy.Please fight to get through this. I miss you deeply, and so does Chris. We have faith in you, and know that we will see you soon. We love you lots, and we pray for you!

Love you tons, Steph Sieben

Paul Cousins,

I know your family and that they are good folks, and your predicament has moved me so I am writing and praying for you. I pray with my wife and two little boys everyday. Tomorrow I will explain to them who you are and what you are going through. They do flying leaps off furniture and I have to bite my tongue to keep from curbing their spirit. So it must be when your son is a young man leaping from airplanes. Be sure to make it through this difficult time so that you can feel some of that anguish for your own children one day.

Love & Prayers,

Paul, Louise, Lyle & Leo Hendriks

WE LOVE YOU PAUL, AND MISS YOU DEARLY! PLEASE COME HOME SOON!!

Lots of love from your friends in North Van., B.C.

Hey Paul, thinking of you and praying that you will make it through this. We'll see your beautiful smile soon! Keep fighting, and draw strength from all those around you who love you and are praying for you (I have a feeling that you have enough strength all on your own, but just in case, know that there are so many people here for you!) Lots of love,

Laura Walls

North Vancouver

Paul we pray for your recovery. we accept whatever is meant for your time on earth but there are many people here who still need you and love you. You and your family are in my thoughts everyday.

Nina Schroeder

Paul and Family,

None of you know me. I literally just stumbled across this page. It looks as though what is truly needed right now is for as many people to band together with as much support as possible....so here I am....one more voice.

For Paul: It sounds as though you are a fighter, although I do not know you I DO know you are giving this a run for it's money.

For the family: Know that there are more people than you can even imagine pulling for all of you. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you well.

I find your strength inspiring and empowering and that is said from the other side of a computer monitor; I can only imagine the love in your family that I'm sure Paul feels right now.

Best wishes,

Brett Mineer
Vancouver, B.C

Aunite Jan and Uncle Richard, Allison, Adrienne and Simon ,

I want to let you know how much I love you all and send all my energy and positive thoughts at this time. I wish I could be closer and helping more and I am really very sorry to hear of this tragic accident. May you find the strength to get through this. You are wonderful people and have hundreds of friends and family who are here loving, hurting, crying, praying and remembering with you. I love you all.

Carla
Cheshire, UK

To my one and only P-Money,

How youuu doin'? Just got the news, seems like I'm one of the last, but needless to say not one that cares the least. I am virtually speechless, all I can say is that be strong and know that everyone is praying for you. You are a unique individual with a contagious spirit for life, keep it up... My thoughts and wishes are with you.

Love always, Nadia (aka Nads)
London, England

i am sending tons more prayers pauls way. keep fighting hard paul, we love you so much. we know you can pull through this. you are in my thoughts constantly and will be until i know you are ok. everyone of us in the skydiving world is behind you 100%. smile brother. we will meet one day. i love you man!

love alana

PAUL, hey man, you mean so much to so many people. As a loyal friend through whatever happened, whatever happened, whatever happened. To being the man behind everyone in case someone needed to be picked up, and it was usually me on a number of nigths. Tearin it up, either on the slopes, with your huge skiis- 210's baby, or flyin down Lynn Valley road- what speed did we break 80/km- yeah thats right. You're the only guy I know to have been able to pack her all up and take off on a wild hunch that, he it's me of course it'll work out, I'll just head to CALI and have the greatest time of my life, while cementing yourself as a man. You made it, you're there, you're on that next level, the one that lets you determine your life as you see fit, now its up to you...so many people are thinking of you, there is no way you're leaving this place without having made a huge difference, already, now just image what the next 80 are gonna be for you. I need you man, I need the stories to tell my buddies, that I've got the craziest friend hurling himself out of planes, or playin it up in Cali just cus he new he could.

You have all my strength and of course, YOURS, dont ever forget that, do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love your friend among so many

Philly

Paully,

I´m hear at school with your picture in hand thinking of you, passing you my thoughts and prayers. I just got an email from Birva and she says hello to our very own, "Pond Boy". You are an amazing guy and strong through and through. At this moment I know you might be feeling tired of fighting, but I want you to know that you can find strength in God and those who love you. You have too many plans and dreams to still fulfill in your life to stop fighting. I remember our conversations the weekend you came to stay with me just like they were yesterday. Not a day goes by that I don´t thik fondly of the friendship we have developed. I will be waiting for more of those memories to come.

Hang in there and fight hard because we are all by your side. If you think you have run out of strength to fight just look to God and those who love you to lift you up. You are not alone, but quite the contrary, surrounded with support, love, and faith. Defy the odds like I know you can, fight like the unbelievable person you are, and stay close to God, for he will give you the strength you need to perservere.

Much Love and Many Prayers,

Addie

Paul and Family,

Sending you warm, healing vibes. May God bless and keep you always.

Blessed Be!

BBarnhouse
Dropzone.com

Paul was the "new guy" at our dropzone in Hollister. I had the opportunity to jump with him once, and I don't know if I have ever seen anyone with a bigger smile in freefall. Though he had only been around for a little while, he had definitely become a part of our family.

All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Paul.

Liz Barnett

Hey Paul its curtis simons friend... i just want you to know that my family is praying for you and so am I!! don't let a ski diving accident take you down man your strong!!!

and simon i am there whit you if you need anything!!

Curtis

We send our deepest prayers and hopes for Paul, his Parents, and You. We are with him and with you.

Dasz, Anna and Danuta Garncarz

Paul,

My thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. You are a strong person, keep fighting.

Love,

Robyn

Paul!

It's Angie Polymenakos here...

Sending my thoughts and payers to you and your family...

Everyone here in North Van is praying for you...we know you can pull through this Paul. Be strong and fight it...we can't wait to see your charming smile when you come back to North Van.

God bless you and your family

Love ya

Angie

Hey Paul,

It's Kevin Kew I graded with you.... just want to say i'm prayin for you. Just hang in there bud, Keep fighting , your not doin it alone, God's with you. My whole youth group and church is prayin for you. As ur sister (Adrian is like our family now, u are too) I hope to see you soon and hear the amazing stories you have to tell.

God Bless.....

My prayers are with you

Kevin Kew

Hi Paul,

This is Renaud the frenchie who did one of your transition jump. Please, keep on fighting and win this fight! Like every body say a the dropzone, even if we don't know you that much we are all part of the same family. You are not alone, we are all with you.

Wishes and prayers are with you and your family Paul.

--

Renaud-Roland Hubert
Mountain View, CA

Just received email from Jan and am in shock. Your website is terrific and so helpful and informative. Wish the circumstances were different though.

Please let Paul know that Bruce & I, Jonathan, Tristan & Robert are thinking of him and give him our love.

Thanks and take care,

Carolyn Crowther

Dear Jan and Richard..

Words can't begin to express how sorry i am for your loss..we are all devastated and i can't imagine how you're feeling at the moment. Paul was an amazing, beautiful soul and we just have to believe he was meant for higher things. I wanted to write to let you know just how strong and courageous Simon, Allison, and Adrienne have been through the last few days. I know it's small comfort, but you have no reason to worry about them while you're so far away..they've really been incredible and I think their their closeness has really helped them understand and cope through this tragedy. I hope in some small way this helps..just focus on yourselves and what you need to do to heal. You have raised wonderful, strong children and I know you will all somehow pull through this together.

all my love and prayers,
Claire xoxo

Paully,

My heart is breaking as I write this...and that is certainly enough for the both of us. While despair threatens to engulf me, I remain hopeful from the knowledge of your strength - you have never been frightened by obstacles, but rather self-assuredly tackled such endeavors head on. I am drawing on this phenomenal strength of yours, because as anyone can attest, you always seem to come out on top. You have inspired me for a decade, Paul, and I fully expect that you will continue to do so for decades to come...keep fighting.

I love you more than words may express.

-Serena

To the Cousins Family.

I am so sorry to hear about Paul. I just got the e-mail this morning and still have trouble believing it. I wish you all strength and lots of love and support. I hear there are lots of people at the house doing what ever they can. I think that's wonderful you are surrounded by so many loving people. Please let me know if there's any way I can offer you support also.

To Paul, I truly hope that you pull through this, beat the odds and come out strong. I'm thinking of you and wish you all the best, you are very loved by many people. We are all routing for you.

My love to all of you! And please do call and let me know what you need. You are all very strong. Please don't hesitate to lean on us and receive the love we all have to offer you.

Allie, that's a wonderful site you've put together. I love the pictures that have been added in. Thank you for being so strong and sharing with everyone in such a loving way!

Love Bek
Vancouver, BC

Dear Paul,

Our friend Ashley Klein sent us this e-mail about your accident. She is in Spain right now, so we do not know whether you are a friend from Spain, or a friend from the US. It doesn't matter. Ashley has put out a call for prayer and we want you to know that we are responding from Southern California. Only this last year our own daughter, also a friend of Ashley's, went into heart failure and it took a year away from school for even partial recovery. It was prayer and prayer alone that got us through each day. Many times we were even too tired to pray and others prayed for us. Know that from southern California we are praying at this very moment for your strength and recovery. We trust that you know the Lord, and that is a huge comfort to your family at this time. We have seen the Lord be in control of our own family's health crisis, and trust that He is with you as well. God bless.

Sharon and Ken Rockwell

Please let the family know (those who are with him in CA) that he CAN hear what they are saying to him. Keep talking to him.

Jan will know who I am. Tell her that our friend Shawna and I did some distance healings on Paul, and that Shawna could feel that Paul could hear everyone....we are both have gifts that allow us to sense these things.

Keep talking to him. We are praying for him.

love and light,
Marielle & Shawna

Hi Allison,

I am a skydiver in Hollister and spent lots of time with Paul recently. I have just talked with your Mom. She is so strong I can't even believe it. I am so, so sorry that Paul has been taken from you. He made such an impression on us all and made many friends in a short time. I can't find the right words for you. Please just know that we are thinking of your family now and are sending our love.

I wanted to share a couple of pictures I took of Paul. The one called Paul2 was taken 9/25/03 and Paulskyvan was taken 9/27/03.

Kath Ax


Dear Jan and family,

I am so saddened to hear of Paul's accident. My prayers are with you all at this saddest of all times. Paul was a great great guy and such a good friend to all who knew him. My son Stephen will miss his friendship so much and treasure the memory of the times they shared together.

My love to you and all your family,

Stephanie Hackett,
North Vancouver

We were so saddened to hear of Paul's accident and of his passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Brian and Lee Anne Taylor,
Phoenix, AZ

To Paul's family and friends:

Sorry about the short mail, just wanted to say that Paul was a great kid, and I'm so sorry this happened. He BURNED for this sport, and it's really hard to see that bright light snuffed out so early. We want to send our deepest condolences to you, and just want you to remember that, no matter how trite it sounds, he died doing what loved.

Best Regards,

Mike and Lynn Frese

I'm sorry to hear the latest. don't really know what to say when something like this happened, but i know that god has Paul in his hands, especially you guys in this time. My prayers are still with you as many of the youth from Valley church. Didn't really knew Paul all that well, other than playin ball with him at school, and seein him around. But i know he was a good guy. But, anyways I would just like to on behalf of the youth at valley church, send regards and love to Adrienne and Family.

Prayers and blessing

Kevin Kew

North Van Grad 2000 :)

Our love to all of you

Lizzie

Mick Lawrie and Elsie
X

Dear Paul's Family,

Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your beloved son and brother. I know the pain you are experiencing is beyond imagination. However, we all know that Paul is now wrapped in the arms of God, protecting him and keeping him safe and free from anymore harm to his body. May the memory of the goodness of Paul's soul provide you some comfort now and forever.

Sincerely,

Nancy Rawitz (Ashley Klein's Aunt)
Fullerton, CA

i just heard the sad sad news. there is no words to describe the emptiness we feel when someone we knew and cared for goes away. Paul was great, he will be missed by many many people.

My deepest thought to the family.

Natacha

Paully,

rest in peace buddy. i've never met anyone who smiled as much as you did, my thoughts and prayers are, and always will be with you. This web-site shows how many different people you have touched all over the world. i guess the angels wont let you jump anymore, your stuck in the sky my friend. God bless, you will be missed and loved everyday.

(p.s. help me and the rest of the boys on the soccer team, we arent doing very well without you buddy)

Marky (Burrows)

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and with Paul.

Love,

Sandrine, Fred, Cabrina and Tom

I still cannot believe what happened ... it's to hard to believe... It's been great sharing those moments and the sky with you my friend.

All my thoughts to the family...

Gian

Dear Cousins family:

I just heard the news at school today, I go to Sutherland in grade 10. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Everybody at Sutherland, we are all praying for the whole family and we are all here if you need anything. Stay strong and keep faith.

Brooke Penman
North Van, B.C

our deepest sympathy goes out to you in the loss of your beautiful son and brother Paul. the angels are surely lucky to get him, but for us down here, it is a tragic and heartbreaking loss.

all our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

sharron and cody drinkwater, north vancouver, bc.

Dear Richard , Jan and family,

We can't find the words to say, to express our sympathies to you all at this difficult time. We know that many things in life just don't seem fair, and we question why such a young vibrant young man was taken? God understands our questions and our despair and sometimes even our anger.

Paul is in a better place but that doesn't mean you won't miss him terribly. It'll be all those hundreds of memories of him that will keep him alive in your hearts and minds.

We just want you to know how we prayed and had the whole church praying on Sunday, and we will continue to pray for your whole family. We pray for God's comfort and strength.

Love and prayers, Jim and Irene Klassen

Dear Cousin Family:

My mother told me today about the last couple of tragic days for your family. I am deeply saddened hearing about Paul's accident.

--

All day long at work, the words "Auntie Jane can I have another glass of juice plee-easse..." were ringing through my head, thinking of Paul. Paul was really young, maybe only 4 or 5 years old, and that day, I honestly though if this kid drinks any more juice he is going to pee his pants. He was a little drinking machine. But.. oh so cute and charming...

--

We are all going to miss Paul immensely. I wish you strength and well being. You are such a strong family, so dynamic and so loving. Paul will always be in our hearts and minds, and never will his spirit not live on.

Much Love,

Julie
(for Bill, Jane, Julie & Andrew Lepper)

You don't know me my name is Ashley. I want to send my love and prayers to all of your family.I never met Paul but I went on this website that my friend Brandy asked me to go on. Cause I wanted to know about Adrianne brother and the accident.I don't know him but when I heard about him I cried.well God knows that he has a good heart and that's why he's an angel.God Bless!!

With love Ashley

When I think of the Cousins family and of Paul I think of the fierce parental love I witnessed while Paul was a teenager, how when it was tough times, it was tough talk, but never give-up time. You fought and won with Paul many times over.

I know that your children are your life and your main reason to be....you did Paul proud and he you. As parents we know that every single moment comes with a risk, and we must take that risk for our children to grow and we must let them go. You did that and you did it well.

I am so very sorry that Paul didn't win this one with you. There is no doubt he was loved. Keep his spirit alive.

My finest regard to you Jan and Richard.

--Sharon Robinson

I am soo sorry, I just found out the terrible news. Paul I am sorry we didn't hang out more often, I know how great of a guy you were. Reading these letters just proves it. You will live on in everyones hearts-you've touched so many.

To the family: my heart goes out to you, I know you'll never forget just how wonderful he was!!!

Love ya Paul, Jolene

Paul & Family,

My family and I were deeply saddened to hear the news. I think Paul & I have been neighbours for just about our entire lives. I remember playing hockey in the street with Paul and many of the other neighbourhood kids while growing up, there are so many memories. Allison, you have done an amazing job on this website, what a great idea to allow all those that have known Paul to share their thoughts and feelings. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.

Ryan Hall

To Paul's family,

No one can imagine the depths of your heartbreak at this time. I checked your website as soon as I was up this morning and saw that you had wrestled with such an intimate and difficult decision about Paul overnight. As you face today, try to remember that God is there with you. He has written His promise to us in Hebrews 13:5 "For God has said, 'I will never leave you; I will never abandon you.'" We pray that remembering this will bring you the peace that passes understanding.

Sharon and Ken Rockwell (friends of Ashley Klein)

To Richard, Jan and family, Words cannot express how saddened we all are to hear of your terrible loss of a dear son. Our deepest sympathies go out to you. From your friends and colleagues @ Acres Vancouver.
To Mr. and Mrs. Cousins and Family:

Dear Richard and Jan,

I am Chris Billinger's Dad, Jim - Chris is one of Paul's many many friends. He and his better half Stephanie are extremely cut up about the loss of Paul. I know they will remember him for the good times. I would like to add that I talked to Paul several times when he came to our house. He was always upbeat, always looking forward to something, he had a zest for life. He also had time for my younger children too! I am going to miss the big blue truck taking my parking space in front of the house!

You raised a wonderful son. A credit is due to you both. My thoughts and those of our entire family are with you at this time. The website tribute is a wonderful way to keep the memory of Paul front and centre - great job Alison! If there is anything you would like me or my family to do, do not hesitate to get in touch.

Best wishes to you and the extended Cousins Family.

Jim Billinger and Family
North Vancouver

Dear Cousins family:

My heart cries for your loss. There is no greater sadness than to lose a child especially one so vibrant and full of life as Paul was. You can only remember what a good man you raised, how loving, caring and thoughtful he was. The e-mails from friends certainly proved he was a "masterful person". You were given a "gift" when he was born to such a wonderful family, you were allowed to enjoy his "passion" as he grew and matured. There were probably, as all kids provide some good times and worrisome times, but it is these memories that will provide strength for you in the months and years to come.

Paul lived his life to the "fullest" he enjoyed living on the edge, and that is something that as parents we wish we could change, but if that is how they want to live life, it is their choice and what makes them "special". Your choice to allow Paul's destiny to be guided by God's hand, was I am sure your hardest decision to date. Know that Paul would never have wanted to live life in less than his full ability to enjoy all his pursuits, he was a great man who "loved large". Jan, you are a great Mom who showed your son how to "love and laugh", Richard you taught him how to "follow his dream" and have "strength of character". Allison you are a "tower of strength" in helping your parents and other siblings endure this tragedy, by keeping this website updated for his friends to follow. I wish I could just hold you in my arms and take away some of your pain. Remember all the good times you and your brother had throughout your young lives, and keep all those "precious memories in mind" for it is those moments that will help you heal. Thank you for your company at the AR this summer, you are a beautiful young lady and a loving soul. My love to your family.

Hugs from Pam MacLeod in Calgary AB

hi paul.

I have only known for three weeks last summer. I will always remember you as a realy good friend. we had such a good time together and you will be truly missed

Soren
Copenhagen Denmark

To: Richard, Jan, Allison, Adrienne and Simon:

Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of your much loved son and brother. We've seen Paul, since the age of three, grow from an active and spirited youngster into a wonderful and caring young man, who lived life to the fullest. He touched, and will be missed, by many.

Love from

Barry and Sue Robinson

Dear Ally and family

I was reading the paper this moring and came across paul's write up. I was sadly shocked to read what had happend. My deepest deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.

Love Megan Kobitzsch.

To the cousins family and all of his great friends!

Just wanted to send our deepest thoughts and prayers to all of you!!

Spencer, David, Kathy, and Scotty Barnard

Show me a man who is never afraid to try new things, who's strength was admired by all, who has a million dollar smile and finally who can take tequila shots with the best of them. I'll show you Paul Cousins.

When I first heard the news I just thought this was another wild Paul story. It is but not with the ending any of us would have chosen.

I just keep thinking about all the good times we had together.

Drinking at Blaners, hittin the clubs, late night drive thru but don't spill any of that shit in my car and most recently the Man U game in Seattle. You almost slept right through the game.

I am deeply saddened that there wont be any new memories, but I feel incredible fortunate for being able to get to know you and for all the great times we did have.

I love you and miss you

Dennis

I didn't know Paul personally but it sounds like he was an amazing guy. My prayers and thoughts are with his family during this difficult time.

Sofia Jeneres

My deepest sympathies on your loss. Starry Starry Nights is a book written by a mother who lost her daughter. It is very comforting in the darkest part of the night.

Julie (one of Kolke's musing's friends)

It diminishes all of us when one of us is lost to fate. What a waste. But Paul evidently loved the sport so many of us love as well. Skydiving is dangerous and this thing happens, but when a really great person especially gets it like that, it makes us all feel a sense of loss.

Sympathies,

Derek M. Jolly
Sacramento, CA

Dear Cousin Family,

From the bottom of our hearts we pray that God will ease your loss. May the memories of a happy go lucky son be ones that will help sustain you over the next while.

In sympathy

Stephan, Andrew, Hans and Wally Kolper

To the cousin family,

I am not sure if you'll remember me but I grew up with Paul and played soccer with him for many years. I owe your son a debt of gratitude. During my younger years I remember trying out for gold soccer with Paul and being worried b/c I was smaller. Paul would always say, "Don't worry Ethan, you're faster than us, you'll make it." I often wonder without his words of support if I would have had the confidence to play well enough at try outs and make the team. He was a winner on the field, and an unforgettable character off.

I may have not ran into Paul much since we played soccer together.. we did have a fun night up in Penticton once when I ran into him, and he was one of those guys I'll always remember of always being in a good mood. The sad truth of this is good people die, but I know death will never end his name, he is unforgettable.

His death may have ended a life, but not a relationship. I know Paul will always be there for the people who loved him. I know that if Paul had the opportunity he would want to be reborn as our eyelids to catch all our tears. I just wish I could make sense of why he was taken away from us so young, but in life I have learned this:

Imagination is stronger than knowledge, myths are more powerful than history, dreams are stronger than facts, and hope is always ALWAYS victorious over experience. Most importantly laughter is the one cure for grief, something Paul was very good at accomplishing! Lastly no matter what, love is definitely more powerful than death. Sadly, troubles are the enevitable part of life, but all we can is repeat the most comforting words of all; "This, too, shall pass."

As we all grieve in the passing of Paul I hope you can find some serenity in knowing this. Others are rejoicing to meet him in heaven while we are mourning our loss hear on Earth.

I believe tears are the unspoken words that should usually be shared, and I want the Cousin family to know that the Ribalkin family although somewhat lost in the past, is here only a phone call away if you ever want us to listen [number deleted]. I believe that whenever the boddy suffer, the soul profits, and in the end our spirit becomes stronger. We will pull through this, and Paul will forever be in my prayers,

My condolences to the entire Cousins family,

~Ethan Ribalkin

Some quotes:

"For what is to die, But to stand in the sun and melt into the wind? And when the Earth has claimbed our limbs, Then we shall truely dance."
~Kahlil Gibran

"The Lord God will wipe all tears from all their faces."
~Isaiah 25:8

"They that sow in tears, shall reap in joy."
~Psalm 126:6-

the cousins,

you dont know me. but i am a grade 10 at sutherland and i heard the terrible news about your son.brother. bestfriend. He was each one of thoughs to i am pretty sure everyone who knew him. I met him once. it was at a sutherland basketball game.i remember that game very clearly, because i had never laughed so much in my life. he was and always will be an awesome guy.my love goes out to the cousins family, we love you paul, you'll be in our hearts forever .

Katelynn

xxx

The Cousin's Family,

I am so sorry to hear that Paul was not able to hold on, but I know he is in a place where he can see how much he is loved, and I'm sure he is still smiling that big beautiful smile down on everyone. I am thankful to have been able to known Paul from the days of Eastview. My thoughts are with all of you through this difficult time.

Heaven: (1) a place somehow high above the clouds, yet deep inside your soul; (2) a place of complete peace, of total and utter hapiness; (3) a place that is greater than the sum of everything you will ever be or imagine to be;

" FOR EVERY JOY THAT PASSES, SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL REMAINS"

~ Laura W. xoxo
North Vancouver

To Paul's friends and family,

My name is Jess(Neil's girlfriend) and i am so sorry for your loss.Death is such a hard task-master. A child's death is the hardest to understand. But, from all experience is born new knowledge. If we but look and hope, new life can be found beyond the tears of grief. And his couragous soul will forever be present. My thoughts are with you!

Love Jesslynn

I've just heard your sad sad news from mum and dad (Sheila and David Watkins) and I want you to know I'm thinking of you. I remember you all from when I used to babysit you - I haven't seen any of you since you were children, but it's hard to imagine a bright spark like Paul dimmed. What words can I say? None will take away your grief, but here is a sympathetic silence..................................................................................................................................................

With my condolences -

Kate Watkins

Dear Jan,Richard,Allison,Adrienne & Simon,

Our sincere condolences ...I remember Paul as a young boy at Eastview and heard he grew up to be a wonderful,vibrant young man..to lose him at such a young age is an unimageinable tragedy,,,my heart goes out to you. I am so

very sorry. Teresa Crowe and family

Hi everyone, I've known Paul for a couple of years but had fallen out of touch with him recently. I wanted to send my deepest sympathies to you and to everyone who Paul touched, but also to lend some words of encouragement (no matter how small) at this tough time. Following is a short story that shows that we are never alone...

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the LORD.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it: "LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."

The LORD replied: "My son, my precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

Best Wishes, and please be sure to update the site with details about Paul's memorial

Mike Raimondo
North Vancouver, B.C.

Oh Jan I am so sorry to hear your news, I read it yesterday in the paper and didnt click it was your son. My heart goes out to you and your family that such a wonderful light has gone out, but you know in your heart he was doing what he loved and that he loved you all - his spirit is still flying out there and you will feel him near you when you really need him. Continue to speak with him and love him and be proud of him - I never met Paul but he sounds like a person full of life and energy and charissma - someone to remember and cherish.

My prayers are with you all - you are a great lady.

Teri V

Hi Alison

You probably don’t remember me, its’ Yoseph I used to work with your mother. I have just heard this devastating news from Dave Goldie. And I cant tell you how sorry I’m, My heart and prayer goes to you and your family.

I have been trying to Contact Jan since I heard about the death of your brother. I have never met Paul, but everyone who knew Jan was touched deeply by her and knows how a wonderful person Jan is. My family and I would love to be there with you and your family during this emotional time. But the sad thing we are out of the country. My prayers are with you and your family

Yoseph Ibraham Fahed

To the Cousins,

Although I’d already heard the unfortunate news about Paul’s accident, I only just found out about this website. This is amazing, such a huge response and show of faith, not only did reading other’s comments about Paul solidify my high opinion of him, but it encouraged me to express my own condolences to you. I know words can only help so much at a time like this, but know that my prayers and thoughts are constantly with you, and even though you already know what a great person he was, I hope that these messages will serve as a reassurance of what a great impact Paul had on everyone around him. He had a way of always making you feel as though everything will always be alright, even at what may have seemed the worst of times. Every memory and picture I have of Paul is of him enjoying himself, and I know that that is how he will be forever remembered…grinning from ear to ear.

May Jesus help guide you through these hard times, and may these notes be a comfort to you.

Jen G
Sabres 2K

Every now and then soft as breath upon my skin
I feel you come back again
And it’s like you haven’t been gone a moment from my side
Like the tears were never cried
Like the hands of time are holding you and me
And with all my heart I’m sure we’re closer than we ever were
I don’t have to hear or see, I’ve got all the proof I need
There are more than angels watching over me
I believe, I believe

Chorus
That when you die your life goes on
It doesn’t end here when you’re gone
Every soul is filled with light
It never ends and if I’m right
Our love can even reach across eternity
I believe, I believe


Forever, you’re a part of me
Forever, in the heart of me
And I’ll hold you even longer if I can
The people who don’t see the most
Say that I believe in ghosts
And if that makes me crazy, then I am
‘Cause I believe


There are more than angels watching over me
I believe, I believe

(Sent from Analies Fraser)

To Allison and The Cousins Clan

I just heard the news and and checked the website, and just wanted to let you know that that my heart, too, goes out to you right now.

My memories of Paul , even now when disbelief and sadness overcome me, always make me happy and usually make me laugh. I only now fully realize how much he and your family have added to my life. I will cherish those times forever....

Love Arne Mitchell
Cultas Crew

To the Cousins Family and Friends

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Paul, Rest in Peace Buddy. Blue skies forever.

Joe Fazio and family

This one is pretty special to me... It's the only photo of Paul and I in the last 5 or 10 years.
Jan, Richard, Allison, Adrienne, and Simon

What a terrible tragedy! Words cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. There are so many things to say, and they've all be said. My heart goes out to you all.

Jon Crowther

Jan, Richard, Allison, Adrienne & Simon,

I can’t begin to express my shock and sorrow when I heard the news about Paul. I will always remember him fondly and will always carry the memories of skiing and sailing at the lake. (Can I go for just one more ski??). I know my sons are also devastated at the news and I’m sure they will express themselves in due course.

The only solice I get is the fact that Paul went out living life at its’ fullest……..

With much love, Doug…..

I am lost for words. But I know that Paul will be missed by hundreds and hundreds of people, including me. We had some great times together before and all throughout high school. On Tuesday, some of us got together for drinks, and we couldnt stop laughing at all the funny memories we had of him (some of the boys were even taking tequila shots and decided to call them Paully shots from now on). I will never forget his ear to ear smile that always made you smile back. I give all my love to his family, and hope that they know he will always stay in our hearts forever.

I love him and will miss him truly

Shizuka

I am so very sorry. Dave Goldie sent me an email with a link to your site etc. Please give my love to your parents for me and I will do my best to make it out to the memorial next week.

Love and prayers,

Heather

Dear Jan, Richard, Allison, Adrienne and Simon,

Our family has been regularly praying for your family and especially that there might be a miracle for Paul. This morning I knew I would have to tell the children that Paul was gone now. Our eleven year old twins had the typical children's questions. Why couldn't the doctors save Paul? Why do things like this happen? And then the big question - why didn't God save Paul? One twin asked this question and without hesitancy our 16 year old son answered "God did save him - he sent his son to save Paul and to save all of us." My husband and I were shocked at the depth of his understanding and the confidence that he had in his answer. It was one of those rare parenting moments when you get that sense that if something happened to you tomorrow, your children they would be OK in this world.

The fact that you asked for prayers told us that you were believers. All of us, no matter how strong our faith, need to be reminded like a child that we will see our loved ones again in heaven, where there is no time, and no hurt. These are things only of this earth. We hope you will find comfort in knowing that Paul is with his heavenly Father now, who can do what we on earth could not. And you will rejoice with him in heaven someday in the presence of our Father. God bless you all with the strength to get through the next weeks and months.

The Rockwell family

Dear family of Paul...

I am so sorry for your loss of Paul...

Paul had given me two email addresses

I was to contact Paul, as we had become friends and we were to jump in your area of the country as my son Mark lives in Bellevue Wa./Wistler Can...I shook Paul's hand as he was leaving Hollister to go to Lodi and we talked...Me and Paul had about the same amount of jumps, both of us new in the sport...

I am 57 yrs old and have five children...Yesterday I was talking to my missionary son Robert and telling him about Paul... A gentleman of a young man clean, bright, who I had become friends with and could visit and skydive with when at Marks...It was shortly after that, that I had found out about Paul's accident...

Being married thirty five years with five children (three boys in there early thirties...I have become a good judge of character in young men...And I know what a beautiful young man Paul was...My tears pail in comparison to your broken heart I am certain. Those qualities I saw in Paul were a blessing, Paul was a beautiful young man...Again I am so sorry...I will continue to pray for your family...

God Bless

Terry Burbatt
Santa Cruz, CA

To Adro and The Cousin Family,

Im a friend of Adriennes and I know how close she was to her brother, I remember her comming to meet Brandie and I to watch "Lilo And Stich" she walked in the door with a smile on her face and started to tell us a story about her brother and how he had just dropped her off and how happy she was that she just went to get a coffee with him and one of his friends. Even though I never knew Paul I know that as long as Adrienne is here Paul's Legacy will live on. Hang in there Adro.

Nicolle Kapler and Family

Auntie Jan, Uncle Richard, Allison, Adrienne, Simon and PAUL,

I am so proud of the strength and courage you have all demonstrated in the last few days.

Auntie Jan and Uncle Richard- Thanks for being there with Paul. For encouraging him in his struggle, then for giving him your understanding when it was time for him to move on. For keeping us all apprised of his condition, and conveying all the messages and prayers of support. For raising four wonderful children…

Allison, Adrienne and Simon- I am honestly amazed at the resilience you three have shown, it is truly a testament to the love and strength of your family. Allison and Adrienne, you are both mature beyond your years, and demonstrated so much empathy and compassion for others during this time of your own personal suffering… And Simon, thanks for asking me how I was doing, and sharing your feelings. How does a 14 year old boy come to the understandings you discussed? Once again, it reflects on the love and strength of your family. And thanks to you all for welcoming me into your house, for allowing me to share tears, laughter and hugs with you over the last few days.

Paul- Thanks for your incredible fight. For surviving your initial accident, allowing your parents time to get to your side. For struggling to breathe above the respirator, so your family knew you were hearing their words of love and encouragement For the way you lived- your huge smile, vibrant personality, and positive outlook. For bringing your extended family all back together, why did it have to take something like this? There are so many memories coming back… changing your diapers on the washing machine and giving you baths in the laundry tub. OK, maybe it was only a few diaper changes, but they were my first ones so they left a lasting impression…. Your Ukranian- style dancing at the family get-togethers. And should I mention you winning the “first person to produce a prophylactic” contest at Pam and Geoff’s wedding, at the age of 16? And finally Paul, thanks for touching our souls in the days after you passed on. We have all felt your presence, and it has helped me to accept things knowing you are at peace.

I love you all.

Cathy

Jan, Allison and Richard;

I would like to share my last impressions of Paul with you. I was staying with Catherine and Christopher while Paul was working on drywalling the new office last month. Catherine and I came home that evening and there was Paul, working in the office with his shirt off, covered with a film of perspiration and caked with drywall dust. I told Catherine that he reminded me of the Statue People we saw in Australia, who were painted gold or silver, and would stand in the marketplace and imitate a statue. Paul looked the epitome of a statue of a Greek god, with his beautiful, healthy body totally covered with white dust and his radiant smile beaming from his handsome face. We only chatted a few times thru the weekend that I was there, but I would like to compliment you on the fine young man I met. May the memories that he left with everyone he met keep him alive forever.

I celebrate his life, and I hope that you take comfort in the fact that the only way to achieve eternal life is to leave this one and go be with the Father in heaven. I look forward to seeing him there, when I leave this life. I take comfort in knowing that God is soveriegn in all situations. He has a plan, and He works all thing for good, for those who love Him. Let's look for the blessing that will come out of this tragedy, and give all honor and praise to God for what He has accomplished thru this. That is another way the we will see Paul's legacy live on.

My prayers are with you!

Barb Harris

Dear Jan & Family:

I just found out from Shawna about what happened to your wonderful son, Paul. The unimaginable has happened - you have lost a beloved child, something we, as parents, hope & pray NEVER happens. This is the hardest journey you will ever take, Jan but I know that you will survive because you are one of the strongest people I know. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you and your family. What a wonderful tribute to an amazing person Allison's website is - I only wish I had known Paul! What a truly incredibly loved person he was - I know he is reading all the emails and smiling down at all of you! To know that you were that respected, loved and cherished - what an incredible gift this boy was and I know he will live on in your hearts forever.

Paul, keep talking to your Mom - she is going to need you.

Love, April (Lightbown)

We were sad to hear of your loss of an incredible son and brother. He had such an amazing spirit, a wonderful smile and an affinity to make friends that this web site is a testimony of.

We were going over old photographs the other day. You couldn't miss Paul in any of the birthday shots. There he was beaming away. He even liked to party back then!

If only there were no journeys of grief but alas there is. Know that you are not walking alone. Your family has a strong bond that will anchor all of you and friends who care about your well being.

With great love and sympathy,

Roberta and Brian

Paul's Journey

Life...how precious it is, for God gave it as a gift,
nurtured by years of love, compassion and care,
from family, friends and those we meet along the way,
tested by challenges, difficulties, despair,
yet He provided prayer..that we may never fail.

Life...the one that Paul lived truly was a blessing,
from all of us, touched and felt even for a short while,
knowing him, I do not, but I can feel the caring,
blessed are the family and friends who've seen his
wonderful smile.

Today, need we be happy or ever be sad?
Rejoice my friend... for in his shoulder now
is the comforting arm of God,
Normal skydiving is a descent to the ground from a plane,
Amazing what Paul did! Skydiving ascending to heaven.

So tears and sadness may be part of our day today,
But never let it end without saying a pray'r,
Thanking the Lord for the life that Paul shared us,
and the message of love, hope and salvation
that, to all men, we may still share.

Truly how precious this gift of life can be,
I see Paul's life as a reminder of thee,
Inspired, renewed is what I feel today,
For Paul is telling me.. "God is with you...
all the way!"

alvin koh relleve

To Paul's family and friends,
i never knew him personally, yet i rejoice with you
for God has allowed His touch to reach us in a special
way..
through Paul.
we continously pray that comfort and love come your way,
through Jesus Christ our Lord...
love, alvin and susan relleve

Paul,

I feel so sad inside for what has happened. Sometimes, we just want an explanation for the way that things have to be... unfortunately, it is usually these times that we don't find comfort in answers.

I am very happy however, to have been able to share your first skydive with you. You were a remarkable student with a very keen sense of things going on around you, and a very apparent and deep burning desire for the sport of skydiving. We had a long spot on that very first jump and landed off in a field. You were the prodigal student throughout, all the way to your perfect stand up landing. I will NEVER forget the excitement that you showed just after you landed - you threw your arms in the air and screamed out with everything you had. I can so clearly visualize how ecstatic you were, and I definitely will remember it, always. Very sharp and an extremely fast learner, it appears as though you were that way with everything that you tried. As I read more about you from your loving friends and family, it truly shows what a remarkable life you led.

We are all deeply saddened that you were taken from us so soon... you will always fly with us and we will never forget that huge, bright cheery smile that you so loved to greet us with.

You will truly be missed by many. Blue skies for you always, Paul... Fly free my Friend.

Monique Sayre

Dear Jan, Richard, Allison, and family....

Oh, Jan, I have just caught up with your devastating news and I want you to know that I am holding you all in my heart during this sad time.

You are an amazing woman with an amazing family and I know that your strength and unity will carry you through what lies ahead....your son's photos show his beauy and love of life and will serve to anchor you as time passes.

I send you my love, the memories of our weekend and orientation together, and the healing that took place then, and will again. May God be with you with His Love.

Love always from me,

Judi Paget

I just got back from a trip visiting one of my children in North Carolina and I had the news about Paul's passing relayed on to me while I was there and it stopped me in my tracks.It also was telling me that the visit that I was doing at the time was very important as none of us knows what we or our loved ones may face in the days and years to come and may we all cherish the precious few moments that we have together.

Jan...Richard....as one of Paul's many coaches through the years I remember a very vibrant person who I enjoyed working with immensely.

No parent should ever have to bury one of their children......my heart and thoughts are out to you,your family and all of Paul's many friends.

John Ribalkin

Dear Cousins Family,

I am very sorry to hear that Paul was not able to make it through his terrible accident, but I am sure he is now in a better place. My family and I will always know him as a happy, charismatic, and intelligent guy, never seen without his signature smile. Every challenge Paul took on became a success, and he made the most out of every minute of everyday. It was clear that Paul was a true leader, this was evident even as a child back in the Eastview days. It's not the length of life, but the depth of life. Paul definetly experienced many things before his life was cut short, and he leaves us with many memories that will last and live on forever. It is comforting to know that Paul is now in a place where there is no pain. It is a devastating loss for all of us who knew him here on earth, but Im sure that it is looked upon as celebrated addition in heaven.

My condolences to the entire Cousins family, and anyone who knew Paul.

~ Ashley Chang and Family.
North Vancouver

Hey there,

You don't know me, my name is Jenn. I met Paul through Ryan V. at a party- and of course the minute Paully entered the room he lit it up. He was someone I clicked with instantly, such a wicked person, such a wicked outlook on life. Me & my best friend stayed out with him in the envoy till am (haha) good times.....we partied hard that night. Such a gentleman, and such a sweetheart- I can't imagine what you & your family must be going through. I just wanted you to know, Someone like Paul who had such a wonderful spirit & soul alive on earth will be very present to you in the after life. Hold onto the memories, and good luck to you. No one should have to go through what your going through, but life is a learning experience and I hope you handle this tragedy with grace.

I love you Paul. See you soon honey.

Take Care,

Jenn Howard

Dear Jan,

My condolences, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult moment.

Take good care of yourself for one cannot turn the clock back but can definitely wind it up again.

Louis K. Wu

Dear Jan, Richard and family,

It was with disbelief that I read about Paul in the Province. Even though I have few memories, I fondly remember you all very clearly from the visits to your home with Corrinne, and the day out at Cultus Lake one summer many years ago when Allison was sporting a broken arm. I am in South Africa on Thursday so will not be able to attend the service. However, my thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Deepest regards, Nick Riedl

Dear Allison & family, our thoughts are with you. John, Vee, Cameron & Conor Shields.
I moved to Vancouver at the start of grade 10, I was new to Sutherland and a little shy. PE was one of my first classes, and Paul happened to be in that class as well. He was one of the first friends I made at Sutherland, he was so welcomeing and friendly, he made me feel right at home. He broke all my tension and nervousness of being a new student with his funny remarks and his quick witt. I will never forget the comfort and acceptence he gave to me that first semester, and then which continued throughtout the rest of our highschool days. Looking back in my grade 12 yearbook, I found Pauls entry, to this day it still makes me laugh and feel comforted:
Whats up Jo-jo! We've known each other since PE10 - I was short, loud, and annoying - you were the new girl from Kamloops!
How things change - the maturity difference from then to now - woo!
It was nice to have you as part of the same grad class. Good luck in the future and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Love Paul, call me!!

Thank you Paul, for all you have done. Sometimes just being able to make someone laugh can change their entire outlook on life, and make them feel a world of comfort in a scary new place.

You'll ALWAYS be missed - you're smile you're heart, You'll NEVOR be forgotten!!!

Love ya Paul,

Jolene
N. Van

Dearest The Cousins family

First and foremost, I am saddened beyond words to hear about Paul's passing, I am at a loss for words to say the very least. Through reading your updates and the messages that have been posted from friends, family and loved ones, I have come to terms with Paul's passing, and although I am very sad, I do know that Paul is in Heaven, where we will all meet him again someday.

My name is Laura Halley, I went to Eastview with Paul and we are the same age. I do recall quite a few memories of Paul, some quite funny that will forever make me laugh out loud when I think of them. I remember Paul's laugh from my elementary school days, and I remember walking home from school with him and Dennis Begley frequently. And he didn't often talk at school, he used to sort of yell...and get really excited when he would try to say something. Just little memories, but to me- they made up the young Paul who I remember very well, and who was a part of my wonderful childhood. I have a few more that I would love to share with you.

I did not know Paul in his last days with us here on Earth, although a very dear friend of mine Cristina Bittante was very close with him. She always has a great story to tell, something funny that Paul said or did. Paul would remember me, I'm sure quite well.

In your need of comfort and Love, my heart and my soul are with you at this time. The feelings of sadness are overwhelming, and in a word- undescribable. I am sad that I will not see Paul's beautiful face around North Van anymore, but I will forever remember him in my heart and in my mind as being a happy person, who loved nothing more than having fun and being himself.

My Love to you all, my wishes and my hopes. My prayers and my dreams . May his spirit live on in all of us, which in turn will make us happy and better people. Let's all celebrate not the loss of a beautiful person, but more the beginning of a new journey for Paul.

Love to you all, I will be thinking of you and wishing for you always.

Love from, Laura Halley, North Vancouver

Cousins Family,

Please accept my condolences.

I did not know Paul, but I spent a very important weekend with men like him, and I feel a belonging to a common team. Although I am halfway around the world from Burnaby, I wanted to write a few thoughts and let Paul know that while it was dark in Canada there was someone awake and thinking of him - thoughts and prayers - that is what it all boils down to.

Paul, I was struck by your phrase "It's All Good." What does it mean?

As I tried to put down some words, I checked the webpage and found that Paul had died of his injuries. Still the words "Its All Good," echoed. Did Paul say it as a looking back in judgement or as a looking around in evaluation, or was it for Paul an expression of looking ahead and making a decision? I believe that when Paul said "It's All Good," he was expressing a decision - a certainty. Definitely a statement of defiance rather than complacency. After reading the words which so lovingly describe him, I cannot believe his favorite phrase was mere jargon. Something about those words struck a chord in Paul and resonated a deeper feeling from within.

Right now the phrase is a buzz. Some dismiss it as meaningless jargon popularized by hip hop music, the NBA's new motto, the phrase from the Survivors series, and other pop culture icons. I think it is more than that. It is a meme - an idea that is in the air and which moves and means many things. Just as genes propogate themselves by leaping from body to body, so memes propogate themselves by leaping from brain to brain. To some it means 'no worries,' - a simplistic happy face. For others it is a new age neo-Buddhist mantra meaning that every reversal is a potential opportunity for personal growth.

I think for Paul it carried more meaning than that.

A baby falls asleep in the arms of its father, a young boy falls in love, a young man grabs all that he has and leaps into space.

What confidence, what beauty, what certainty in all three!

It _is_ all good.

Yes I know that a quick look back or a cursory look around will show that 'no,' it is not all good. There was, is, and will be evil and pain and death and loss - how can those 'all be good?' And no, the answer 'He works in mysterious ways' is no solace when we cry out for an answer to 'why?"

In the end, we all have a choices to make. As men we try to follow our consciences, we try to choose the right road. And we do a lot of hoping that we make the right choices. Despite all the points I've mentioned and all the other valid objections that one can express to the phrase "It's All Good," I hope that I, like Paul, that will still struggle to say, "It Is All Good."

Our choices and fights to be good men, good husbands, good lover, good fathers, good workers and good members of our teams... our struggles with priorities and money, health, and fixing the toilet... all of these things take on an infinite meaning when united to our commitment.

When we unite the struggles of our lives to our committment, they both become our personnel expression of hope, love, and life. Then our struggles aren't negative: they are positive. Some would even say they become our prayers.

It is all good. Tragedy strikes and a loved one dies. We may believe in a life beyond this one, and a life eternal, or we may not, but we know we miss them terribly. One of our men is down and we grieve. But we also know that it's all good... that he is in peace and one way or another, we will all be together around the fire again.

It _is_ All Good.

Thank you,

Atwood,

Abqaiq,
KSA
via HSIT Calgary

Dear Jan, Richard and Family

I am so sorry to hear about Paul’s death. I wish you love & light during this incredibly difficult time for you. My thoughts are with you.

Sincerely,

Shawna Dzus & Family

Dear Allison, I recently heard about your beloved brother Paul's passing. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Paul, the wishes on the website from friends and family and the Province's article about his life impress on me what an extraordinary,loving,friendly and special person Paul is.What a joy to have such a wonderful brother in your life for the amount of time that you had together.I am deeply sorry for your loss and pray for you and your family.My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your loving family.Please know that Paul will be remembered and loved by us all.

Love Caroline Hrabarchuk

Paul;

From the 1st day I met Paul on the soccer field in Lynn Valley I knew he was special.

His big smile, his eagerness to perform, his awkwardness, and his energy. Paul was a definite diamond in the rough.

As we spent more time together it became apparent that Paul would always have his own agenda. Which wasn't always his coach's. He definitely kept a coach on his toes.

Paul was an inspiration to me and his fellow teammates whether they knew it or not. His dedication, persistence and his energy, WOW, his energy. Paul would run full out from dawn to dusk if you let him.

Paul was eager to learn everything and right now. He was always questioning in his desire and demand for training, and education. Explanations had to meet his standards and satisfy his thirst or the did not go away.

Paul demanded of everyone what he demanded of himself and would get frustrated from time to time when he was let down.

We tried not to let him down.

Visiting with him in Phoenix a few years back, I saw a young man still as intense as ever, full of life and still operating on his own agenda.

More recently I had the opportunity to see him play indoor soccer, there he was running like the wind and giving his usual 110% and it brought a smile to an old coach's face to see the real diamond.

YOU'LL BE MISSED!

Love,

An old coach in Phoenix

Brian

GEORGE CARLIN

(His wife recently died...) Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - gross and mouthy comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent ... and so very appropriate post 9-11. A wonderful Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete.

Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again. Give time to love, give time to speak, and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Adrienne and the rest of the Cousins Family.

My heart goes out to you all.

This is Kelsey Fleming, I used to dance with both Adrienne and Allison years ago (remember the sleep-over's Adrienne??) I also got the privilege of meeting Paul many times and becoming friends with him a few years ago. He was an amazing person and I will miss him dearly.

Adrienne: hold on sweetie, don't ever forget how special Paul was to you. If you ever need a hug, I'm here.

Love Kelsey

Dear Jan, Richard, Allison, Adrienne and Simon,

I want to express our deepest sympathy to all of you in the loss of Paul. Jan, I remember the first time we met was when our kids, Amalie and Paul, attended Cedars Preschool. Then, a few years later at Eastview, then Sutherland. I feel a connection with you and Paul, even though I didn't know him well as a teen. As a mother, I can't imagine the pain that you've experienced. We are all praying for you and your family. Wonderful website.

Love, Karen Foster and family

Dear Cousins Family,

My deepest sympathies go out to you on your loss of Paul. I went to Eastview and then to Sutherland with Paul, so many great memories from all the years. From early on in elementary school when we got lots of snow, but not quite enough to close school, I remember Paul was out there so fast building jumps for all of us to toboggan over. And then in Grade 7 at our graduation dance, girls on one side of the gym, boys on the other and Paul and I think Chris V. were right in the middle trying to get everyone to dance together. His great laugh was always echoing through the halls at both elementary and high school. Paul is going to be deeply missed by all! Rest in peace Paul, we'll see you in heaven. Erin Scott
North Vancouver
Eastview Grad 95 / Sutherland Grad 2000

10/13/03

To Paul's Family,

I am sharing this with you, because I remember after losing my Dad how hungry I was for pieces of anything that were a part of his life. This piece is very, very small, nevertheless I wanted you to know that each time I saw Paul on Saturday, he was smiling - radiating with happiness.

The dropzone was having a "Speed Start" contest that day, so the Beech 99 took a load up for just fun jumpers. It was my first jump of the day. I sat next to Paul on the plane. He sat the opposite way then we normally sit on that plane, with both feet in the center aisle and I thought - he must be a beginner. I, too, am a beginner with a little over 150 jumps. Little did I know that it was a light load with only 7 or 8 jumpers, so when I suggested that he sit facing the back of the plane he politely set me straight. A second later, he smiled at me and said, "Is that you who smells good or is it Bill?" (We were sitting next to the pilot). I laughed and said "It's Bill." The entire flight, he was smiling ear to ear. He was definitely very excited to be going up for a jump. On the next jump, we sat next to each other on the plane. He was still smiling! I know I was really nervous when I first started jumping - I still get nervous - I've never seen a beginner skydiver smile so much. I thought to myself how nice it was to be next someone with such positive energy. After that jump, I saw Paul sitting on the couch outside with the same big smile he had in the plane. I walked by and asked, "How was your jump?" I don't remember exactly what he said, but it was "all good" as he answered with a huge smile. "How was your jump?" he asked. "Wonderful!" I replied.

One moment in time, two strangers passing by, sharing a smile and a quick word or two about a sport that we love; about a sport that has given us a new passion for living life to it's fullest; about a sport that touches our soul and brings us joy; about a sport that challenges us each time we fly...about a sport that we love.....two skydivers passing by, sharing a smile...no longer strangers.

I pray that all of your beautiful memories of Paul will forever comfort your hearts. I haven't got this life figured out, but it's people like Paul who's smile makes all the difference.

Be assured that he will always be with you....always.

Tamra Sayad
Lodi, California

From everything I've read, it has been hard to contain my heartache for the family that Paul has left behind. Although I have known Allison for a number of years now, I never knew Paul. I only had one encounter of him. And all I can remember is how very tall he was, even next to me!! There isn't anything I can say, that already hasn't been said. And I'm sure some of us wish that we could take some, if not all the pain away from you in dealing with this tragedy.

No one deserves to suffer the tragedy of losing a loved one. But when we do, we give every ounce of heart and soul into remembering them. Through tears, through frustrations, through thoughts and through our hearts. Paul meant a great deal to alot of people. And from what I've read to understand about him, I wish that I'd had the oppurtunity to be his friend.

Sincerely

Shaun Scholtz

Hi there Allison, and Cousins family.

First of all I wish to send out my deepest condolences to the Cousins family and lend my support during this difficult time along with so many others I believe already have.

News of Paul’s unfortunate accident slowly trickled through to me last Tuesday. Initial conversations about this event started out with “Remember Paul Cousins?...” I thought to myself, “of course I remembered him, how could I not?” I spent five years going through high school with him and saw him excel everywhere. I saw him on the soccer field and basketball court playing like a pro. I saw him in the halls, in classes and around the school, doing great, always with groups of friends, laughing and joking; having a good time. That was what Paul was about, having a good time.

He was such a great guy. Paul never once put anyone down who was less popular during highschool where many others unfortunately were pulled into the game of superficialities. That’s what I respected about Paul. I believe Paul saw the brighter side in people which illuminated up his charisma. I was privileged to spend five years with Paul and we went our ways after graduation, however, it was not before he wrote this in my year book

“Frank Tcheng, you’re definitely a quality character.. you know, you got more morals than the average Joe. These years have been full of living and learning, now it’s time to put our skills to the test, and you definitely got the skills.

Good luck in your future endeavors.
Paul Cousins.

P.S. thanks for the slide show – you did a great job – brought back some memories.”

Three years went by until Paul ran into me at a local store. And I’m glad he did. Even though three years went by, Paul recognized me and called out my name. I thought he would have been the last guy to do so or even bother to do so but sure enough he did. Our meeting was short to say the least but it felt good to be recognized by Paul. This broke the ice and later on I kept in contact with Paul as he headed down to California to discover himself. Paul would often summarize events as I envied him back at home. We would sometimes crack witty jokes and keep in touch with local events but after our dialogs, I was proud that Paul was living it up. He deserved it, he really did.

My last dialogs with Paul were about sky diving. I was truly impressed with Paul’s stories, and thorough explanations of skydiving crew and equipment. His confidence poured over to me as I secretly wanted to go skydiving when he invited me later on. However I held back knowing I wasn’t as brave as he was.

So last week as my friend initially asked “Remember Paul Cousins?..” I did, and I thought Paul had accomplished even a greater feat in life I had yet to hear about. However as news of his tragic event was delivered, my heart sank and the room instantly became colder. Throughout the week as I talked to more of Paul’s friends, a different memory of Paul would arise when someone started with “Remember Paul Cousins?..” as they did not realized I already knew. I later realized “Remember Paul Cousins?” was a question, but to me had become a statement.

Privileged to have known and remembering Paul,

Frank Tcheng

Words will never be able to describe the type of character Paul had. He was known to so many, and will so be missed by the same.

He was my friend, and always will be. Since I can remember Paul has always been in my life. It's hard to believe all the memories you can create with just one individual in what seems like so little time. It feels like just yesturday we were playing down in the creek behind your house getting our shoes wet, laughing and carrying on.

To the cousins, your are the strongest family I know. Nothing will ever replace such a great man, I am just honoured to have had the privilege to have known him.

Chris Versteeg

Jan,

I apologize that I have not yet written to you but I first wanted to compose my thoughts.

I heard the news from Tiffany who phoned me one evening. She was very emotional - crying on the phone - and told me that Paul had passed away. My heart sank. That night, I read the Psalm of David over and over.

1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he restores my soul.
He guides me in paths of righteousness
for his name's sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the valley of the shadow of death, [1]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.

5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.

That night, both Tiffany and I said a prayer for Paul and your entire family. Indeed, Paul was a good person with a huge heart. The Lord walked him through the valley of the shadow of death and into the house of the Lord. Our thoughts are always and will always be with Paul and your family.

In the short time that I new Paul, we did share some good times.

One afternoon when we were down by the lake, we swam across to the other raft and talked about life. He was full of enthusiasm and was passionate about having fun. Afterwards we went up to the sauna, Paul lasted longer than me as he kept pouring water on the rocks. More steam, more stream!

In the saloon, we played darts with the ranch hand. Paul came very close to beating Robert on one occasion. This was no small feat as Robert could have been a professional darts man. But then our alcohol consumption increased as both of us had a few shots of Tequila – afterwards, Robert said, "Boys, the number one rule I darts is to drink afterwards." Paul was always full of life.

I will always remember Paul when he was juggling the soccer ball. I have never seen anyone that comfortable playing "keep it up." He made it around the house on one foot juggling that ball with his feet and head. Incredible.

Tiffany mentioned to me that she thought Paul was very handsome. She was embarrassed when she told me this, but, running through the forest on his big white steed, she said that Paul looked like "Prince Charming." And then there was I on my spotted brown coloured horse named after a whale from Sea World. No comparison.

One day on the trail, Paul and I talked about how we both liked the calmness and serenity of the quiet forest. This is undoubtedly the calmness that he enjoyed when parachuting - the air passing by as he slowly descended to the earth below.

Love always and forever,

Peter